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Apathetic (in a way). Insomniac. Fascinated by brujeria. Epitomizes procrastination. Hopes for the best, expects the worst. Cynical. Empathetic. Introvert. Obstructionist. Inconspicuous. Imaginative. Ambiguous. Passive-Aggressive.


Melancholic. Pessimist. Eloquent. Critical. Dense. Euphuist. Loquacious. Pompous. Shrewd. Walking Paradox.

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The world is full of obvious things which nobody by any chance ever observes.
- The Curious Incident of the dog in the night-time, Mark Haddon (Christopher)

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When it comes down to it,
I let them think what they want.
If they care enough to bother with what I do,
then I'm already better than them anyways.
- Marilyn Monroe

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I was born with an enormous need for affection, and a terrible need to give it.
- Audrey Hepburn

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The pure and simple truth is rarely pure and never simple.
- Oscar Wilde

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I do not want people to be very agreeable, as it saves me the trouble of liking them a great deal.
- Jane Austen

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Monday, December 26, 2005

Crash course on Polite Conversations



During most of the past 14 years, I have been lost - searching, if you will - for myself. I have not only tried to conform and fit in a certain category, I have brought myself to like something I abhor and to dislike and deny something I was, and still am, deeply passionate about. I have done all of this just to blend in. Because I was something that I never wanted to be - I stood out.

To categorize myself as a non-conformist would be the most hypocritical and ironic thing in the world. To admit to ones self and to others that you are a non-conformist would be to conform on being a non-conformist.

To those of you searching, you all know. Insecurity and Instability is one of the main causes of conforming. Image is everything to some, to some it is the least important thing. But what really in non-conformity?

Non-conformists are actually those people who don't care about how they look. Think nerds (sorry for stereotyping) with big dorky (again, sorry) glasses, and braces, and suspenders with denims that only go to their ankle so you can see their leather shoes and white socks. They're the ones who're truly the non-conformists. Non-conformity is being happy and secured and stable with ones self; Being able to express opinions but at the same time also have respect.

Take this from a person who's tried to stereotype herself under "Rebellious Rocker", "Tortured Artist", "Humanitarian Boho", and a lot more monikers. You can never ever perfectly fit into one category - or at least I’ve found out that I can't. I am somewhat in between everything. So I'm a cheerleader, that doesn't make me a perky person. Some people find it hard too see me as a cheerleader because I like rock, rainy days, and dark art. So what? That doesn't make me a morose person. In fact, a lot of people ask me why I play music that makes them want to "shoot up and die" - but it's the opposite, really. Because I like my music, I find comfort in my music. You know people hate rainy days they say it's dark and somber and they can't take walks outside or go out. But, to tell you the truth, I just love a rainy day. It's just an excuse to stay inside and read a book. I don’t want to take a walk outside anyways.

It just sometimes kills me, you know? To see a person becoming something that they don't want to be just so they can become inconspicuous! I hate being recognized, but I've learned that the actual key to being comfortable in your own skin is to be happy. Just stop torturing yourself.

Okay, so here are some things we need in our improvement list:
1.) Don't try to be something - or someone, rather - you're not – find who you are and you'll be surprised at how much happiness it will give you.
2.) Never loose hope on other people
3.) Don't hold grudges
4.) Stop cursing

Follow these, and you'll find no dirty laundry. And it feels good to know that there are no skeletons in your closet. Here we go with stability; for one thing, you have to learn to be happy single. And when you finally have stability within yourself, you'll find stability in another person. They say, a key to a good relationship is appreciation. So when you find your significant other, remember to let them know how thankful you are for even the smallest things.

Oh and I forgot to mention, LOVE YOUR SIBLINGS. Please, everyone do so. Because seriously, in the long run, you're all each other have. I mean it's okay to fight because it's normal. It’s okay to dislike (I suppose) because that, too, is normal. But love your family. I don't really have a healthy relationship with 3 of my siblings. We fight all the time! We bicker and we snap at each other. WE GNAW EACH OTHER TO DEATH. But I love them, because the're my siblings. I want to kill them most of the time, but I'd kill for them anytime. I'd do it in a heartbeat.

My sisters think that I have a problem with my attitude. I balance and contrast they're perkiness to my dark emotional self. I'm not saying that they're unaffectionate, it's just they're tact is a little off hand. Since I grew up in a family of 4 girls, all of which cheerleaders, I was expected to conform to what my sisters had conformed in. Now this brings us full-circle to non-conformity. Wow, funny how that is, eh? Anyways, I always was a very opinionated person. And my powers of persuasion came in handy to whenever I debated against something I did not believe in. This sometimes comes off as an annoyance to people about me. The fact that I deliver with such conviction and eloquence just irritates them. And I know that! That's why I try so hard to let go. I mean, you can't please everyone.

Yes, such a cliche`. But it's the truth. There are so many cliche`s yet we choose not to follow them. Such a pity, that is, because they are the one's that are applicable to life. I know at times I sound so high and mighty, so condescending, but I do not mean to speak that way. I just naturally do. And I am a completely random person. See how I jumped topics? Tallying back, I think that the only way to become a better person is to find out what you lack and work real hard for it. You have to fight for it. Most people would say they try to be God-like or Jesus-like. But how can they? No one knows how the all mighty acts. No one knows how he IS. So, I think that he sends sacraments. You know, like to me, for me, my sister is a sacrament of Jesus Christ. She is how I should be. Like, I'm not forced to be like her, I just want to. You can call her a role model, but I don't believe in those. I just believe in sharing a common opinion with another person, and it just so happens that we share opinions. I mean, her wisdom leaves me speechless. It's so compelling.

In myself, I have found that I am comfortable with my own. I need not praises nor insults. I am who I am because this was how I was born. Now I am here to listen to those in need of any support. I was given that and it had helped me grow as a person. I would like to share the same experience with others. I am here to listen for everyone has a story.

I also have removed my comment box. This is because I think that whatever comment you make will affect me as a writer. If you give me praise, I'm afraid my modesty and humility will dry up; if you give me criticism, I'm afraid it will become psychological and it will affect the way I write. So please, please, respect my decisions. (:

Because for every true friend, comes forth a 100 enemies.

DESIDERATA
by: Max Ehrman

Go placidly amid the noise and haste and remember what peace there may be in silence. As far as possible without surrender be on good terms with all persons. Speak your truth quietly and clearly; and listen to others; even the dull and ignorant; they too have their story.

Avoid loud and aggressive persons; they are vexatious to the spirit. If you compare yourself with others, you may become vain and bitter; for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself. Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans.

Keep interested in your own career however humble; it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time. Exercise caution in your business affairs; for the world is full of trickery. But let this not blind you to what virtue there is; many persons strive for high ideals; and everywhere life is full of heroism

Be yourself
. Espacially, do not feign affection. Neither be cynical about love; for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment it is perennial as the grass.

Take kindly the counsel of the years, gracefully surrendering the things of youth. Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune. But do not distress yourself with imaginings. Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness. Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself.

You are a child of the universe, no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here. And whether or not it is clear to you, no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should.

Therefore be at peace with God, whatever you conceive Him to be, and whatever your labors and aspirations, in the noisy confusion of life keep peace with your soul

With all its sham, drudgery and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be cheerful. Strive to be happy

Saturday, December 24, 2005


Near Wild Heaven



I don't usually post entries like this, but for the love of it, I will. It is one beautiful memory I want to share with you. (:

This vacation, I have had the most fun I could remember. And I had it with people I love; I spent it with 2 of my bestfriends - Maria and AJ. This vacation has brought full-circle to whatever has been happening in our lives right now.

You see, our trio has been together since 4th grade. We were always the best of friends. There's some history in between all of this, but what is so beautiful is that, it has not affected our friendship. In any way.

Since the start of the Holiday Break, Maria and I have been staying in each others company; I slept at her house and she slept at mine. Actually, we didn't sleep at all. We just goofed around and enjoyed each other's company. But I'll tell you about one particular day in a very hectic week. One Friday morrow, AJ called me up. He said that he and his friend were going to attend the Simbang Gabi at their village, Valle Verde 2, and asked if we wanted to accompany them. (Yes, he called me up at 4a. HAHA) Since we had nothing better to do, we accompanied them.

We hailed a cab at 4:30a and arrived at Valle2 at around 5:00a since the cab we rode got broken. Talk about bad luck. Anyways, AJ and Mhacky were there already and saved some seats for us. After mass, the four of us had breakfast and just stayed at the park. AJ was dead tired, since they, too, haven't slept, so he said he'd go ahead and then Mhacky has Church Choir Practice (Naknampoots. :D)Maria and I were once again left wondering into nothingness so we decided to go to my house. Drop and Kuya Jap were already up when we got home so we just hanged with them. We got tired so we took an hour long nap and then headed to Maria's house to just get some stuff. Kuya Jap and Drop tagged along and we ended up eating. :D

We got back at my house at 3:30p and decided to help out in preparing for the ICS Party. We got to Lola's house at 4p and then started prepping up and fixing the venue. People started to arrive at 6.

We went home at around 10p and dropped Maria off home since she had to get ready for some family affair.

BES, I love you so much! And my family love you, too! :D

CHRISTMAS DAY



I know I promised to blog everyday. I couldn't live up to it. SOHOREH. Anyways, Merry Christmas to all. :D I love my gifts! Pics to be uploaded soon.
Tuesday, December 20, 2005

The 12 days of Christmas



On the first day of Christmas,
my true love sent to me
A partridge in a pear tree.

On the second day of Christmas,
my true love sent to me
Two turtle doves,
And a partridge in a pear tree.

On the third day of Christmas,
my true love sent to me
Three French hens,
Two turtle doves,
And a partridge in a pear tree.

On the fourth day of Christmas,
my true love sent to me
Four calling birds,
Three French hens,
Two turtle doves,
And a partridge in a pear tree.

On the fifth day of Christmas,
my true love sent to me
Five golden rings,
Four calling birds,
Three French hens,
Two turtle doves,
And a partridge in a pear tree.

On the sixth day of Christmas,
my true love sent to me
Six geese a-laying,
Five golden rings,
Four calling birds,
Three French hens,
Two turtle doves,
And a partridge in a pear tree.

On the seventh day of Christmas,
my true love sent to me
Seven swans a-swimming,
Six geese a-laying,
Five golden rings,
Four calling birds,
Three French hens,
Two turtle doves,
And a partridge in a pear tree.

On the eighth day of Christmas,
my true love sent to me
Eight maids a-milking,
Seven swans a-swimming,
Six geese a-laying,
Five golden rings,
Four calling birds,
Three French hens,
Two turtle doves,
And a partridge in a pear tree.

On the ninth day of Christmas,
my true love sent to me
Nine ladies dancing,
Eight maids a-milking,
Seven swans a-swimming,
Six geese a-laying,
Five golden rings,
Four calling birds,
Three French hens,
Two turtle doves,
And a partridge in a pear tree.

On the tenth day of Christmas,
my true love sent to me
Ten lords a-leaping,
Nine ladies dancing,
Eight maids a-milking,
Seven swans a-swimming,
Six geese a-laying,
Five golden rings,
Four calling birds,
Three French hens,
Two turtle doves,
And a partridge in a pear tree.

On the eleventh day of Christmas,
my true love sent to me
Eleven pipers piping,
Ten lords a-leaping,
Nine ladies dancing,
Eight maids a-milking,
Seven swans a-swimming,
Six geese a-laying,
Five golden rings,
Four calling birds,
Three French hens,
Two turtle doves,
And a partridge in a pear tree.

On the twelfth day of Christmas,
my true love sent to me
Twelve drummers drumming,
Eleven pipers piping,
Ten lords a-leaping,
Nine ladies dancing,
Eight maids a-milking,
Seven swans a-swimming,
Six geese a-laying,
Five golden rings,
Four calling birds,
Three French hens,
Two turtle doves,
And a partridge in a pear tree!


Religious symbolism of The Twelve Days of Christmas
1 True Love refers to God
2 Turtle Doves refers to the Old and New Testaments
3 French Hens refers to Faith, Hope and Charity, the Theological Virtues
4 Calling Birds refers to the Four Gospels and/or the Four Evangelists
5 Golden Rings refers to the first Five Books of the Old Testament, the "Pentateuch", which gives the history of man's fall from grace.
6 Geese A-laying refers to the six days of creation
7 Swans A-swimming refers to the seven gifts of the Holy Spirit, the seven sacraments
8 Maids A-milking refers to the eight beatitudes
9 Ladies Dancing refers to the nine Fruits of the Holy Spirit
10 Lords A-leaping refers to the ten commandments
11 Pipers Piping refers to the eleven faithful apostles
12 Drummers Drumming refers to the twelve points of doctrine in the Apostle's Creed
Monday, December 19, 2005

Jack Skellington no more



Tis the season to be jolly, falalalala lalalala!

Let me enlight you with some christmas stories and urban legends. I will be posting a story or poem or anything related to Christmas everyday for 6 days. (:

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Claim: Two of Santa's reindeer were originally named 'Dunder' and 'Blixem,' not 'Donner' and 'Blitzen.'

Status: True.

Origins: Can you recite the names of Santa's eight reindeer? If so, you probably do it by recalling the first few lines of the 1949 song "Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer":

You know Dasher and Dancer,
and Prancer and Vixen;
Comet and Cupid,
and Donner and Blitzen...


The source that added eight individually-named reindeer to the then-nascent Santa Claus legend was the poem "A Visit from Saint Nicholas" (now more commonly known as "The Night Before Christmas"), first published in 1823. A portion of the poem read as follows:

The moon on the breast of the new-fallen snow
Gave the lustre of midday to objects below;
When, what to my wondering eyes should appear,
But a miniature sleigh, and eight tiny reindeer.

With a little old driver, so lively and quick,
I knew in a moment it must be Saint Nick.
More rapid than eagles his coursers they came,
And he whistled, and shouted, and called them by name.

"Now Dasher! now, Dancer! now, Prancer and Vixen!
On, Comet! on, Cupid! on Dunder and Blixem!
To the top of the porch! to the top of the wall!
Now, dash away! dash away! dash away all!


Who are those last two reindeer? 'Dunder and Blixem'? Aren't they supposed to be 'Donner and Blitzen'?

The story of how two reindeer named 'Dunder' and 'Blixem' became 'Donner' and 'Blitzen' is a complicated and confusing one, in part because a good deal of mystery remains about the origins of the poem that named them, "A Visit from Saint Nicholas." We'll do our best here to trace the history of how the poem — and the names of two reindeer — changed over time.

"A Visit from Saint Nicholas" made its first print appearance in New York's Troy Sentinel newspaper on 23 December 1823. The poem had been submitted anonymously, and over the next thirteen years it was reprinted without attribution in various newspapers, magazines, and almanacs. Eventually word spread that the poem had been penned by Clement Clarke Moore, a Bible professor at New York's General Theological Seminary; an 1836 reprint of "A Visit from Saint Nicholas" finally credited Moore, and the notion of Moore as the true author of "A Visit from Saint Nicholas" was cemented when he included in a volume of his own poetry published in 1844. However, rumors have long persisted that "A Visit from Saint Nicholas" was written not by Moore, but by a different New Yorker of Dutch descent named Henry Livingston — a claim which regained prominence at the end of 2000 when scholar and textual analyst Donald W. Foster published a defense of Livingston as the true author.

Whether Moore or Livingston wrote "A Visit from Saint Nicholas," one of them melded elements of Scandinavian mythology with the emerging Dutch-American version of Santa Claus as a jolly, pipe-smoking fellow and produced a vision of a sleigh pulled by eight flying reindeer. He assigned names to all the reindeer, and he took two of them from a common Dutch exclamation of the time, "Dunder and Blixem!" (the Dutch words for "thunder" and "lightning," as rendered in English orthography). These are the names that appeared in the original 1823 publication of "A Visit from Saint Nicholas":

"Now! Dasher, now! Dancer, now!
Prancer, and Vixen,
On! Comet, on! Cupid, on!
Dunder and Blixem;


In 1837, publisher Charles Fenno Hoffman printed a version of "A Visit from Saint Nicholas" that included several alterations from earlier versions, including the changing of 'Blixem' to 'Blixen' (to make it rhyme with 'Vixen') and 'Dunder' to 'Donder' (perhaps to bring the spelling more in line with English pronunciation). When Clement Clarke Moore prepared "A Visit from Saint Nicholas" for publication in his own 1844 book of verse, he rechristened one of the reindeer 'Blitzen' and retained (or coincidentally reiterated) Hoffman's change of 'Dunder' to 'Donder.' Moore's 1844 version of the poem is the one that became the standard and established 'Donder' and 'Blitzen' as the names of two of Santa' reindeer in the memories of generations of children.

Literary sleuths (such as Donald Foster) who believe Moore is not the true author of a "A Visit from Saint Nicholas" have theorized that the original reindeer names of 'Dunder' and 'Blixem' sounded odd to Moore because he knew German but not Dutch, and he therefore changed them to 'Donder' and 'Blitzen' (or failed to notice when someone else changed them). This makes sense in the latter case (as 'blitzen' is the German word for 'lightning'), but the explanation is oddly inconsistent in the former case — 'donner' is the German word for 'thunder,' so if Moore were familiar with German, why would he have retained the spelling of Blitzen's partner's name as 'Dunder' or 'Donder' rather than altering it to the more appropriate 'Donner'?

How and when 'Donder' made the transition to 'Donner' remains a mystery. In 1949 Johnny Marks turned the popular story of Rudolph, a misfit red-nosed reindeer (created by his brother-in-law, Robert L. May, for a 1939 Montgomery Ward promotional giveaway booklet) into a song, and Gene Autry's recording of the tune became a smash hit that Christmas season. Although Marks certainly helped popularize the 'Donner' usage by including it in the "Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer" lyrics, he was far from the first to refer to one of Santa's reindeer by that name. We found seven different mentions of 'Donner' in the pages of The New York Times prior to the 1949 Christmas season, the earliest occurring in that newspaper's 1906 publication of Moore's poem. In fact, a 1926 New York Times article on the origins of Santa Claus stated that "two of the original reindeer were originally given Dutch names, 'Donder and Blixen' (Blicksem), meaning thunder and lightning" and "it is only modern publishers who have rechristened them with the German 'Donner and Blitzen.'"

But that's as far as the trail leads us. We know 'Blixem' was changed to 'Blixen' and then 'Blitzen' between 1837 and 1844, and we can make some reasonable guesses about why those changes were made, but we're still mostly in the dark about why 'Dunder' became 'Donder,' and the details of when and why 'Donder' finally became 'Donner' remain elusive. We can say for sure, though, that the names of two of Santa's reindeer, as originally published about 170 years ago, were 'Dunder' and 'Blixem,' not 'Donner' and 'Blitzen.'

Sunday, December 11, 2005

The Chronicles of Narnia: The Lion, The Witch, and The Wardrobe

I just got home from watching The Chronicles of Narnia at Columbia - where else.

Lucy Pevensie stumbles across the timeless world of Narnia while playing hide-and-seek. And what a world it is! Here she finds Mr. Tumnus, a pan-like creature who at first, attempts to kidnap her. But instead, finds in her a friend he had never had and decides to help her.

At first all ends well with the two friends, until Edmund, Lucy's annoying older brother who just can't follow directions, rats them out to the White Witch. Soon, Peter, they're very responsible older brother, and Susan, they're know-it-all older sister, finds themselves with Lucy on a wild goose-chase after they're kidnapped brother.

They first meet the 2 beavers who introduce them to the Prophecy - that is that 2 sons of Adam and 2 daughters of Eve will come to Narnia, overtake the throne and will deminish all evil that becomes of Narnia. But to be able to do so, they have to team up with Aslan, the Lion King of Narnia.

Although it seems impossible, you can suspend disbelief and become engaged in the story because the special effects are so outstanding! The cinematography, art direction, special effects, editing, and audio will most likely be nominated for Academy Awards. And the lion Aslan dominates every scene he appears in.

Outstanding performances from all actors! but I have to single out Tilda Swinton as the White Witch. For I truly loathed her - really, I wanted to strangle her. I thought the children did a great job, considering their relative inexperience and the amount of blue screen work involved.

To sum it all up: The Chronicles of Narnia: The Lion, The Witch, and The Wardrobe are sure to get an Oscar nod. To everyone who has enjoyed The Lord of the Rings, watch Narnia. For it has the best cinematogrophy after The Lord of the Rings.

2 big thumbs up!

And oh yeah, stay a bit while the credits roll. There is a small scene afterwards.

from the soul: sick (hang-overs. blah)
spinmix: 12 Pains of Christmas
head to toe: soccer top, jeans, reebok rubber shoes.
Thursday, December 08, 2005

Just Like Heaven

Yes, another one of my now very frequent movie reviews. I guess for me, it's better to write about what happen in other people's (whether they be fiction or fact) lives better than mine. Yes - I am a cancer and I become very isolated and crabby. Go figure.

Moving on...

Just like heaven has a beautiful story plot. Although, not very realistic. But who cares? I get up every morning to this so-called reality and, so far, I'm not enjoying it. It seems to me that this would be the better reality. But going to my point, I get up every morning to face reality every day. I do not need it in the movies that I, the movie fetishist or monger, watch. I mean, what's the deal right? It's almost like we negate the industry itself. Because movies are supposed to help you escape reality... to help create a vivid imagination... to widen and expand our horizons... to make us believe again. (Okay, Essa, seriously, stop it.) We're drifting further from the topic I want to talk about again.

Tallying back, Mark Ruffalo did such a fine job in this movie - he really has proven himself worthy after 13 going on 30. You gotta say. But, I have to admit, this one was Reese Witherspoon's all the way. She really is such a talented actress! I wonder why our movie critics and voters for the Oscars or the Golden Globes or those with the like do not give much notice and credit to Comedic actors and actresses. It just takes as much talent and if not, even more. In my own frank and brutal opinion, there are a very small number of actors who can pull off a REALLY GOOD romantic-comedy. Reese Witherspoon has pulled it off many, many times. And Mark Ruffalo did so well in 13 going on 30. Both said actors do no disappoint here.

What is up with romantic-comedies today, anyways? Most aren't even funny. They're just... light. Although, I must add, Jon Heder was funny. Love that boy (Napoleon Dynamite, baby!)

But this movie was not centered on being all about comedy. It will touch the hearts of any member of the human race who feels left out, neglected, ostracized, and just simply, people who feel like they have no control of their lives; like their lives control them... Being centered by work or school is one example of which.

Mark Ruffalo plays David, an agricultural architect who has recently been widowed. And Reese Witherspoon plays Elizabeth Masterson, a successful doctor whose life has been centered on her work. These two people meet at Ruffalo's apartment, formerly Witherspoon's. She, who has not yet moved on, asks him to help her remember what happened to her. As the story progresses, so do their relationship. When they finally pieced it all together, they find her body in a coma whose life support will be unplugged. As their chase looms to an end, they find out that they were supposed to meet, as a blind date, the same night as the accident. And that he was her unfinished business. We all would think, "Oh man. She's gonna move on to her afterlife now..." But no, she does not. Instead, she's given a miracle and is brought back to life after David attempts to kidnap her body from the hospital. You probably think this is where it ends, right? But, again, no; for she does not remember him - oh. My heart broke here. He left her, reluctantly, alone. Again... this is not where it ends. Instead, he moves out of her apartment, she moves back... and finds him in the rooftop where she once told him that she had always wanted to plant a garden. He planted the most beautiful garden for her and when they locked hands, it all came back to her...

So if constant special effects, extreme violence, streams of foul language, or total realism are for you, then perhaps you should skip this movie. For the rest of us who can lay-back, relax, and enjoy a romantic-comedy, will truly fall in love with this movie. I left feeling in love.

Cheers everyone. Here's to the night we felt alive.

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spinmix: Eve 6- Here's to the night
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